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Don't expose yourself. Girls, measure those skirts.
If they are short enough that you are flashing people when you sit,
don't wear them. Don't wear anything above the knee. Also take into
account which kind of church you will be attending, as expected dress
can vary between churches. Generally, don't wear anything see-through or
transparent. This can be solved by using undershirts or tank tops.
Girls, absolutely. no. cleavage. Boys, no wife beaters and even if
you're doing to be doing work (such as tiding up church grounds, or
anything really), try to keep your shirt on.
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Wear appropriate bottoms for your church and gender.
Girls, wear a dress or at least a nice skirt when you attend services;
avoid pants and slacks. Also, be aware of the length. Baptist,
Pentecostal, Mormon, and some independent churches expect longer skirts,
so a "maxi" or "midi" (ankle length and calf length, respectively)
skirt is the rule here. Catholic and Protestant churches, on the other
hand, are usually more liberal and just request that skirts reach or
cover the knee. Yes, miniskirts and above-the-knee clothing are popular,
but save it for the rest of the week. Guys, wear a nice pair of slacks,
such as khaki pants or dark jeans. Both genders should avoid wearing
shorts.
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If you are a girl, you may be expected to cover your head.
Be sure to know before you arrive at the church whether women are
expected to have their heads covered. In particular, this is a tradition
and requirement in many Eastern Orthodox churches, more traditional
Catholic Churches (especially if you are attending a Tridentine mass),
and some Southern Baptist churches. If you are expected to cover your
head, wear a hat (not a baseball cap or similar) and wrap a scarf,
shawl, or piece of fabric around it so that most of the hair on your
head and some of the hair on your shoulders is covered. Be aware that
different churches have different requirements and/or expectations on
what this head covering should be. In a Baptist church, a hat is okay;
in a Catholic Church, a mantilla or chapel veil, and in an Orthodox
Church, a more hijab-style covering is expected. Research beforehand!
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Wear a nice shirt. Both genders should wear a nice
shirt. Don't just roll out of bed and put on the first thing that comes
out of your drawer. Boys, wear a nice, collared shirt, like a polo or a
button-down. In warm weather, a nice dark, solid color tee shirt with no
writing on it can substitute for a collared shirt; in the wintertime, a
turtleneck is appropriate as well. Ties and slacks are preferable and
may be expected if you're high school/secondary school age. Girls,
anything that isn't too low-cut is fine. Collared shirts and blouses for
young women are nice, but not required.
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Remember that you do not have to dress like a prep or a Duggar to be a Christian.
So long as your clothing is decent and meets the requirement of the
church you are attending, it doesn't really matter what you wear.
- Girls, you don't necessarily have to wear a skirt. Although preferable and expected in some churches, if it's twenty below zero, really cold, or not a Sunday service, you can sometimes get away with wearing pants; if you are going to wear them, try to wear nice dark colored jeans or slacks.
- Guys, try to steer clear of caps on Sunday or when attending the worship service. You can wear fedoras, but not caps. It is considered common respect to take your hat off when you enter a place of worship, especially if you're a guy.
- Know that thongs, unless they are dress thongs should not be worn.
- Boys, make sure your pants stay up. Yes, it's fashionable to expose your underwear now a days but it isn't church appropriate. For either gender: No ripped up jeans. You are in the presence of God and you want to show respect.
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